CAN YOU LOVE TWO PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME?

CAN YOU LOVE TWO PEOPLE AT THE SAME TIME?

This is one question I discovered people ask me all the time. Can I love two people at the same time? I love Mr A and I also Love Mr B and I don’t know who to choose. I love Miss A and I equally love Miss B. I don’t know who to choose. Here is your answer.

No you can not love love two persons at the same time. The Human mind, is not wired to release the same kind of affection on a particular subject especially in the case of relationship/marriage. You can’t love two people at a time. You love one but you are attracted to the other. That’s it.

Often times when people as me questions like, sir am in a relationship with this person then I met Someone else and I like him/her too, but am confused because I don’t know who to choose. The answer is simple. If you find yourself in such a situation then go for the second person because if you truly love the first person you there won’t be space for the second person to fit it.

Its not something that should confuse you, if you really loved the first person you were with then you will never have liked the second person. Stop deceiving yourself you can’t love two people at the same time. What you have for one if Love and the other is attraction.

No man is perfect there are certain values you want in a person that this person you are with do not have but you find it in the other person. So you’re trying to balance the equation. I found 60percent in this one but the remaining 40percent is with the other person so let me merge them to get the 100% person of my dreams.

So because the person you’re with does not have the complete values you want in a person and you find it in another person, you naturally get attracted to the person because of those values you see in them that’s not in the person you’re with.

For example the person you are with is all good but they are not that romantic and you are a kind of person that love a very romantic person, all of a sudden you meet a person who is very romantic, because that’s what you’re looking for that’s not in the person you are with, you naturally get attracted to that person. That’s not love its attraction.

Attraction is not love, it simply means something is attracting you towards them, which implies that if that thing stops then you will not longer be attracted to them. So many people have ended beautiful relationships because of attraction which at the end of the day do not last.

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